I had a wonderful night with cousin-in-law's abode. It's my first time to be with them for a lengthy time since I usually go there very seldom only if my husband would visit them. More often than not, we would only visit their place for the reason that their grandparents where here in the city or otherwise they have no grounds to drop in.
For a long time, I was only observing the family's approach to each and every one, and I discern the way they treat each other.They have their own conviction that each of them couldn't give just a piece of understanding and indulgent as their haughtiness reign.
For the first time I and my cousin have had a long talk that lasted for hours and we didn't even realize the depth of the night. In the middle of our conversation, I
discovered the bright side of her because I always hear criticisms and opposite feedback about her or the one-sided story. And now I have a clear thought that hearing both sides of the story is better before concluding on to something.
In my opinion, sometimes life is unfair, because many people would only see the outer side or the physical outlook of a person rather than the inside, and when someone can make mistake for once is considered to be what he/she is obliterating the countless good deeds he/she did.
We can't deny the fact that every family has its own culture and tradition that they lived for that is why each has its own views and opinions. It is up to us who would adjust and understand them the way they are and the way they were raised by their family.
Being the mediocre in a family having two different views and opinions, beliefs and traditions are exquisite for me to become a better person in which I know how to adjust or where would I situate myself when I am with them since I also came from a unique family like them.
