sleepover

I had a wonderful night with cousin-in-law's abode. It's my first time to be with them for a lengthy time since I usually go there very seldom only if my husband would visit them. More often than not, we would only visit their place for the reason that their grandparents where here in the city or otherwise they have no grounds to drop in.

For a long time, I was only observing the family's approach to each and every one, and I discern the way they treat each other.They have their own conviction that each of them couldn't give just a piece of understanding and indulgent as their haughtiness reign.

For the first time I and my cousin have had a long talk that lasted for hours and we didn't even realize the depth of the night. In the middle of our conversation, I
discovered the bright side of her because I always hear criticisms and opposite feedback about her or the one-sided story. And now I have a clear thought that hearing both sides of the story is better before concluding on to something.

In my opinion, sometimes life is unfair, because many people would only see the outer side or the physical outlook of a person rather than the inside, and when someone can make mistake for once is considered to be what he/she is obliterating the countless good deeds he/she did.

We can't deny the fact that every family has its own culture and tradition that they lived for that is why each has its own views and opinions. It is up to us who would adjust and understand them the way they are and the way they were raised by their family.

Being the mediocre in a family having two different views and opinions, beliefs and traditions are exquisite for me to become a better person in which I know how to adjust or where would I situate myself when I am with them since I also came from a unique family like them.

simple happiness

What am i going to write?

Hmmm..my mind is teeming with so many thoughts and topics on what to write down that ended on to nothing to put to writing.

However,my thoughts came up with the idea of writing something, and that is to write about the solitary happiness that everyone could ever experience.

To my mind, I am always looking forward to watch the morning television show from ABS-CBN's "Showtime". It is a variety show that showcases different talents from all walks of life that gives opportunity to every individual or group of Filipino people to exhibit their talent, creativity and intelligence to the viewers. Also, I am prompt to witness the out of nowhere judge's sample talents that most audiences yell every day before they give their comments to the first challenger. Lastly, I am constantly delighted to Vice Ganda, one of the judges, to hear his unique comments and opinions to the performance of the competitors,in his way of delivering it through a spontaneous jokes that could make me smile and laugh out loud at all times.

By all means, I could say that happiness is a matter of choice and a solitary feeling that is felt in many ways an individual would allow it to be that way.
Being happy doesn't mean that I have to be in an expensive place or event to be elated but by just sitting down on my couch and hearing those cliched jokes that could make my mouth widened out up to my ears is enough to feel that I am happy.

Whatever the situation I may experienced as an individual, it's up to me to decide whether I'll be happy or sad in spite of my situation.

first time

It was a bit odd to do things like this because I am not a good writer, but I will try my best to make a good writing out of nothing for the sake of something that would make my life better.

I have the inclination to do blogging but my capacity to write always holds me back. However time flies and I realized that there is no harm in trying on to something that my heart dictates me to do so.

Thanks to my friends April Gail Banes and Avs Amigleo for the information and the idea on how to start blogging.

Now I am pressured on what to write next.